Greener grass
The other day, I found a link to a site called Maria’s Diary over on Maymay’s Maybe Maimed but Never Harmed. I’ve only read about half the content, but on it a woman named Maria tells a tale of...
View ArticleThe rabbit returns
I’m back. Miss me? So last night, the first full night of my return, was full of talking (and a little sex – I’ll get to that in a minute). Belle was somewhat put off by my lack of subbie...
View ArticleHot WiFi action
With regard to my recent observation of how hot the idea of Belle having a paramour makes me, I thought I’d share some thoughts about a couple of sites I found by sifting through the incoming links to...
View Article45 and counting
It’s been 45 days since I last had an orgasm. I’m not writing this for any other reason except Belle’s still out of town (back tomorrow night!) and I’m really starting to feel both her absence and my...
View ArticleJust a theory
Following up on yesterday’s post, I’ve been wondering something. I said: Being diminished in that way really worked for me. And… I like the feeling of being optional and a beneficiary of her charity....
View ArticleReaffirmation
The other day, we asked our 12-year-old son to put some meat into the deep freeze in the garage. Well, actually, Belle asked me to do it and I delegated the task to the boy thinking carrying meat and...
View ArticleThe Line
I may have mentioned before, but the kids were away from home last week. That led to one off-the-hook day spent mostly in bed and me mostly in her and us fucking like crazy teenagers, over and over. I...
View ArticleCop tease
As I said the other day, Belle’s out of town. She’s visiting her BFF in NYC and, from what I can tell, having a wonderful time. Yesterday, she FaceTimed me from the BFF’s apartment. She was on a couch...
View ArticleOf porn and rogue vibrators
Two random things… I’ve started a new Tumblr. One more brick in the global Thumpermedia empire. Of course, there’s the original Portfolio. When I first started curating it, I said it was a place to...
View ArticleIt’s not the size of your striatum that matters, it’s what you do with it
I keep having weird thoughts when I meet people. Not all people, but some. For guys (like this dude that was working a convenience store I happened into the other day), I wonder what kind of porn they...
View ArticleThe other guy
A couple of months ago on a Saturday or Sunday morning, Belle laughed and told me she had received a random friend request from some guy in England. They had no mutual friends and she had no idea who...
View ArticleFurther TOG pondering
I wasn’t going to write my previous post last night for fear it would rev me up too much to sleep afterward but it was pretty clear I was already too revved up for that. Beyond just the normal excess...
View ArticlePossession is nine-tenths, etc.
Belle and I spent some time after the lights were out last night just talking. Talking about TOG specifically, marital openess in general, me, her, etc. (even Drew, but that’s for another post). It was...
View ArticleBack off, rabbit
If I look back on my sexual history over the last decade or so, I’d say the one area that could use some improvement that consistently shows up is that I’m far too…um, enthusiastic. Which, in and of...
View ArticleObjects in mirror are closer than they appear
Mrs. Fever had a typically insightful comment to my last post regarding the issues of objectification in open relationships and it’s made me think. Belle, in particular, appreciates hearing her point...
View ArticleHell hath no fury
I experienced a whole new thing on Sunday. Belle and TOG had arranged a time to Skype and the time came and went with no word from him. She was disappointed and hurt, as anyone would be, and I was mad....
View ArticleA good morning
Device distribution, April to date When we got back from Spring Break, as I said, I locked myself back up in the Looker 02. In the weeks since, I only got out to swap devices and have otherwise been...
View ArticleThe return of TOG
I’ve tried to write a post about TOG, Belle’s possible other guy, but I couldn’t get it right. Not only because I struggle to write about it in a way that isn’t all soap opera-ish (and I said I...
View ArticleCan’t stop the feeling
There’s this feeling I’ve been having that I want to write about but I haven’t been able to figure it out. It’s the kind of thing I will noodle on while trying to fall asleep because sometimes, in that...
View ArticleClose your eyes and don’t think of England
Today, Belle didn’t want to come. She already has the past few days and has a refractory period more like a man in that she hardly ever comes more than once in a day and two or three days in a row wipe...
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